on that note I wish that trans people who have the experience of just being able to say ‘im this gender’ and having people believe them straight up would be just a little (lot) more respectful of people who don’t just pass like that. im three years on T. i do not pass and I have never been assumed to be a man by a stranger. so many trans people, especially transmascs think that bc they can put on a hoodie and bind and people assume they’re a man this means that every transmasc can do that and quite frankly I am sick to death of that idea being so widespread in the trans community